Ocd cant take dating rejection
The problem is that when we turn to others or even ourselves for that love and acceptance, we are setting ourselves up for failure and the damage of rejection.Only God can be trusted as the source of our identity. Self-rejection is where a person rejects them self. This can often lead to self-hate, self-resentment, etc.Rejection is an anti-Christ spirit because it opposes the very nature that God created in us.Rejection starves a person from love and acceptance that they were designed to receive.They have to be right, or else they feel worthless...that's because "who they are" (their identity) is based upon them being right.
Then we have performance orientation and drivenness, certain variances of OCD, etc.
The goal of the enemy is to get us built up with emotional baggage inside and negative feelings in our hearts against one another, ourselves, and God.
Rejection has a lot of fruit which can widely vary from one person to another.
They find their identity in fixing other people's problems, and they love it when people come to them for help or advise.
The truth is that we were created to be loved, accepted, and appreciated.