Dating a woman with young children
They are about motorcycles and concerts and traveling and freedom, not keeping up the house, helping with homework, and having tea parties and catching lightning bugs, and all the adventure that comes with kids and family.One even commented that he already "did his time"."Some" younger men, tend to have issues with "another man's kids" and can't bond or connect with them.I'm sorry if this seems harsh, but I can't tell you how many whiney middle-aged men with toddlers I encounter on this site who complain because everyone has grown kids except them.Personally, I'm not going to get involved with someone who has to look for a babysitter on weekends.and you probably won't like it: "Just because you can, doesn't mean you should." Meaning just because you're capable of bearing/producing more children when you're middle aged, you probably should look at the big picture of life down the road.Not saying that you don't love your kids because you apparently do, but do you really wanna go to their high school graduation using a walker?Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. We all have pasts, baggage, issues, are set in our ways, and a big percentage of us have grown children or teenagers.I am an older woman who also has very young children. I am finding it very difficult to find any men my age or above who are genuinely interested in doing the family thing.
Keep looking, there are men your age who have young children. Your age with young children is not going to be easy.
What I do know however is, it is going to be a lot harder to find those that will date you.
No amount of complaining about it here or in real time will change this.
When dating , you shouldn't introduce your kids to your guy until you know there is a committed relationship, thinking there is a committed relationship isn't the same thing ,and introducing Jack for 6 months, Frank for 3 months and Allen for 8 months sends the wrong message to your kids.
I also think parents with young children shouldn't date, especially if they say their kids are their lives, because no one wants to be told you're in second position behind the kids, that's unrealistic, the single parents that knows how to balance the two will be successful every time I have a theory on older men/women with young kids ...